Tips for a white girl dating a black guy
Summer of 1998, I exited a Target store with a guy I was seeing at the time.
“Hey, come over here and talk to me,” a guy said standing with a group of friends. As I prepare for a Summer stint across the pond, I thought I'd repost this lovely piece written exclusively for The Creamin My by my favorite New Zealander, not to confused with Zoolander, Jim O'Don...
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The guy did, in fact, have some kind of black girl fetish.
He kept touching my hair without my consent, was legitimately disappointed that I could not twerk, and called me “sassy” whenever I voiced an opinion that was different from his.
There was no racial tension, but then again, no sense of black community. All the boys I crushed on were white; my first “boyfriend” (aged 10) was white and my first boyfriend (aged 14) was white.
” Against my better judgment, I assumed that the wingman just wasn’t very good at his job and started talking to his friend anyway.