No interest in dating women
Now you’re going to get the same song and dance as every other guy who has written to complain about women on the Internet. So let’s say you’re a 36-year-old woman, entering the prime of your life. Yeah, 45 is a little old, you say, but you want to be open-minded. It’s that you’re failing to recognize what most younger women want. At least you know that a woman on Millionaire Match might be more willing to sacrifice youth for security.You’re done with the bar scene and you’re very much interested in settling down to have a family of your own. Well, if you’re born in 1971, you’re part of Generation X. Your friends are buying their first houses and having their first kids. Maybe he’ll still be vigorous enough to keep up with your active lifestyle. Next, since you can’t convince someone to date an older man, stop trying.You may be ready for him to move in and begin a commitment, but you’re getting way ahead of where his head is at. Until he figures out for himself that he needs you and that you have become a necessary part of him, your love and tightening grip will seem like a trap, a prison and the end of freedom and life as he knows it. Once he’s had his “Aha” moment, he will see the commitment of love for the paradise it is, and he will gladly join you there. But they don’t want you to schedule their itinerary for them.They don’t want to be expected to show up someplace for you without proper notice and their approval.
By the time you have your first child, you’ll be 38 or 39. That’s not the kind of life you imagined for yourself or your children. Let’s just hope that they don’t discriminate against men their own age.
Those first weeks or months of encounters and dates seem to be filled with such great promise, high hopes and exciting possibilities.