How often to hang out when first dating
If you’re doing the initiating and chasing, he may just be enjoying your company temporarily.
But if you do nothing, the only way you’ll hear from him is if he’s genuinely excited and motivated to pursue you.
And, as I wrote a few weeks ago, we love it when girls take initiative.
Whether you’ve yet to go on a date, or have been hooking up for months, you should totally feel free to text him first.
If you’ve been down this road before, you know that it’s seldom successful.
These things might worry you, but something else makes your palms sweat and your pulse hit triple digits: asking someone out on a date.
They said that it was exhausting trying to figure out which guys liked them versus which guys Go ahead and hang out with someone if you’re just getting to know him or her. They hang out perpetually, creating confusion and tension that could easily be dissipated by asking someone on a date.
By all means, don’t ask a person out just because you think he or she is cute but know nothing else about them. I often get the questions, “How do you know when it’s time for a friendship to go further?
If the guy is into you, he’ll simply be psyched to hear from you.
Now, how and when you follow up from the initial contact is another story.
I tend to believe that assigning dating “jobs” to specific genders is a thing of my parents’ (or even their parents’) age, so I don’t think it’s necessarily a guy’s responsibility to open communication.