First message on an online dating site
I will say this though, if it's a dating site that has in its messaging service a subject line, I like to put a cliff hanger in there as a way of practically guaranteeing she reads my message. One that ALWAYS ensured a reply back was "I hope you aren't racist". I guess they always replied so that they could validate themselves somewhat so that they don't feel guilty or racist if they didn't reply. I go back and forth on whether asking a question or making a statement is a better opener. Maybe there's a way to get the to respond to a first message, but I think they have a lot of anxiety about in general.So rather than type "hey Anna" or something generic like that I might type, "I noticed that..." And then continue the statement in the body of your message. I just try to get their attention in the first message instead of writing a long winded specific message about something in their profile. Tailoring messages to each girl's profile is the way to go. Just gets things going in a more interesting way than "hey".I messaged this to a girl one time and she responded with "I don't have much on my profile, but thanks..blah blah".Saying the same things as everyone else and hoping that she replies doesn’t work . Because I wanted to know how many messages a hot girl gets on an online dating profile I recently made the test and set up a fake profile with a sexy picture of a half-naked girl.I received over a dozen messages in the first couple of minutes.The reason I advocate my original line is that it is more complex than just simply saying "Hey" or "What's up", but it's not too outrageous that it will turn a girl off. Maybe there's a way to get the to respond to a first message, but I think they have a lot of anxiety about in general.I just try to get their attention in the first message instead of writing a long winded specific message about something in their profile.
Some girls respond well to complimentary openers, some don't. They usually have longer profiles, so look for something for an original joke.The only problem is that the high number of women who are looking for the right partner attracts an even higher number of men who dream about being that perfect partner.