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(And don't get me started on the deep voice argument.) Most importantly, what is completely illogical about the stigma of short men is how the physical size of a man has so little to do with who he is on the inside, and it’s precisely internal—aka personality—characteristics that matter in terms of how good a partner or husband a man can be. I always cringe when a person says something that rules out an entire category of people, especially when someone rejects another in a flippant, auto-pilot fashion. Perceptions of infidelity risk predict women’s preferences for low male voice pitch in short-term over long-term relationship contexts. For me a romantic relationship is useful: keeps me from being lonely, he can protect me from things like bears and creepos, sexual satisfaction, and we can depend on each other for emotional and financial support.In other words, if what women want ultimately for a long-term relationship is an honest, reliable, and committed man, short men should not be ruled out! "Yeah, sorry," you can imagine someone saying, "I've just never been attracted to short men." While so many women report this preference, I rarely hear any of them self-monitoring as they do so. Men's height as a reason to "feel safe" is the SAME REASON that you have the NEED to feel safe. society taught everyone that the tall man is better and thats that or maybe its also inside us that bigger is better thats why we have $$$$ $$$ is the great equalizer thats why society is going towards the 1%ers thats why we are not fair with money thats how shorter guys get the girl 5'9 with millions is much better than 6'0 and a tough life so many people wont have jobs in the years ahead cause we dont need most people they will be weeded out just like women weed out shorter guys women are super superficial.One client, in particular, told me that she feels “more secure” when she is out and about with a tall man, while she clarifies that she'd feel more nervous if she were with a man who could not protect her physically in case she were somehow threatened. So many of the possible explanations of why women don’t seek out short men sexually or romantically don’t make logical sense. I would most likely not be attracted to a man who's shorter than me and not very strong.For example, when it comes to the better-protector argument, the truth is that plenty of short men exist whose overall weight and muscular strength far eclipses that of many tall men, but that logic doesn’t seem to persuade many women to give a short guy a chance. I wonder if passing on short men as potential romantic partners—really, if sexual attraction overall—borders on a moral issue. Who would protect me from big scary men hiding in the alleys?For example, O’Connor and colleagues (2014) discuss how women find men with lower-pitched voices more sexually attractive. Women want taller men more than men want shorter women. I also feel safe emotionally with him because of his kind personality.Anecdotally, I have heard more than my fair share of female clients disclose how a sense of security and protection are key factors. My point is that I wouldn't be as attracted to someone who couldn't keep me safe.Having heard short male clients of mine complain about their jeopardized status in the dating pool, I can speak for at least some of them when I say that short men believe that women see them as less than or deficient, as if models pulled off an assembly line because they don’t measure up to the others.If we conceptualize the dynamic along a continuum of developmental stages, it’s as if women see short men as awkward teens stunted in time, desperate at a school dance and relegated to the side wall.
As a man, I will never date women with flat chests.
It’s as if the ability to win a physical fight—to overpower another man—is part and parcel of who the bad boy is. Happy guys finish last, says new study on sexual attractiveness. I suppose if his personality wasn't as amazing as it is, I wouldn't be as attracted to him. I could also say that if he wasn't as muscular and strong I wouldn't be as attracted to him.