Dating old boyfriend after divorce
But if it’s every single night, and the glass of whatever becomes like the cup of coffee in the morning, a necessary lubricant, there is probably an issue there.And I’ve seen TV become the same sort of numbing or escaping addiction. You want clear and present as the normal relating condition between you and another consenting adult. And if the chemistry is working, there may be a pull towards the bedroom.
All of these are clues that the relating part of the relationship might still need some exploration. And now that we have our kids, and our independence, we can be more intentional and clear about what we want in our next relationship.
That’s never worked for me, but if that’s your thing, make sure that’s what the other person is saying as well.