31 year old man dating 18 year old
This whole time, Ive been constantly asking why is a 25 year old guy ok with hanging out with a group of 17-18 year olds? But Daughter said that Guy doesnt drink and all his friends do, and he doesnt like to hang out with a bunch of drunk people. By now, Ive met Guy a few times and he actually seems like a nice person. Her dad and I (We are divorced, but try to keep a united front in the raising of the kids) found out they have been dating for a while and are possibly having sex.
So the last few weeks, I notice her texting and talking on the phone to Guy more and more. She and I have discussed sex, safe sex, responsibility and consequences on numerous occasions, and she has confided in me about some of her friends activities; some that she disagrees with.
So there will definitely be consequences for that, but as for the rest, I am at a loss. But knowing her, I can understand what an older person would like about her. And Guy has called apologizing about lying and they both have said he wanted to tell us, but she didnt. I spent a lot of time today talking him out of finding the Guy and doing bodily harm to him.
I feel like I can only condone or condemn the relationship, and neither one really sounds like the right thing.If the victim is under fifteen, the punishment is up to seven years in prison, but still older men/women decide to have sex with young girls/boys.Parents are starting to become even more concerned about there children’s safety and every week the New York attorney’s receive a calls from angered parents.When teenagers become sexually active, it brings to their lives a whole host of new complications and confusions.
While most high school students think of the emotional, social, and physical consequences of sex, few consider the legal gray area they might be entering.Fortunately, lawmakers in New York took teenage relationships into account.